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✨ Are you hiding your own glow?⁠
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Many highly successful women habitually undervalue their achievements. ⁠
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It seems that women face a double-bind: when they don’t tell others their achievements, no one else can have knowledge of what they’ve done. When they do, they can feel like they are being boastful (or others will interpret it that way) – a characteristic that can make women feel judged and unpopular.⁠
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How many times have you downplayed just how AMAZING you truly are? how INCREDIBLE your success has been? how EXTRAORDINARY you are to have accomplished that big goal?⁠
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I want to encourage you: don't downplay your talents. Don't diminish the determination you have in creating your success.⁠
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I want to hear my female friends and clients talk themselves up because it EXPANDS MY WORLD. It shows me what’s possible. It gives me something to celebrate. ⁠
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Held with grace and humor, ‘boasting’ helps others to know how to connect with you, how to empathize with you, how to understand your back story, and how to relate to you. And it gives them permission to admire you, too!⁠
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What success are you celebrating this week? I want to know!

Looking back over my journey as the Founder & CEO of Ready for LOVE, I mentioned in yesterday's post how this company has generated over $8.5 million in (online, almost entirely passive) revenue -- no small feat.⁠
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Being an ambitious woman can make people uncomfortable. So can talking about the money that ambition brings in.⁠
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For most of us, ambition is a natural state – as opposed to something we choose. We are ambitious because we have a deeply-ingrained vision which drives us (sometimes unrelentingly). Ambition isn’t the enemy (and we couldn’t kill it if we wanted to); it’s simply a fire that needs to be tended to light our way.⁠
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Let me encourage you today: don't hide your light! Don't quiet your ambition because you think it's too big or too scary or too loud for someone else.⁠
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Light the fire. And then let it burn.⁠
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It won't just light your way... you'll be amazed at what you can do, how many others you can help, and what lives you can change with your success.

5 years. Thousands of success stories. $8.5 million.⁠
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It's been almost 5 years since I founded Ready for LOVE, Inc. and while you may think the number I'm most proud of here is the eye-popping revenue one (and I am PROUD of that... more on that to come!), it's not.⁠
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The truth is that the most amazing thing about what I've built in Ready for LOVE has nothing to do with money and EVERYTHING to do with community.⁠
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I've always known that women in community are a powerful force, but until Ready for LOVE, I hadn't really seen just how supportive, how invigorating, and how unstoppable they can be when placed together in a nurturing, expertly curated and encouraging space.⁠
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It's an easy and stereotypical assumption to think that when one woman finds love, her still-single peers would begrudge her.⁠
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But the Ready for LOVE Community has not only been the most enthusiastic cheerleaders, they have been a sisterhood like no other.⁠
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So, as I approach the 5th anniversary of Ready for LOVE, I want to shout out the women who have come together in life, love, and laughter to form a truly extraordinary community.

Sometimes you need the moment by moment to appreciate the full moment! Finally getting to meet some of my clients in person after only connecting online (albeit connecting deeply) for years was priceless. I wanted to share this moment with you- hope you can feel it! Styling by @stylebylp and @garbarinishop don’t you love the dress ??!!!

🎂 This is 50! Swipe for a sneak peek at my Golden Jubilee...⁠
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So grateful for all those who came to celebrate.⁠
So grateful for all these beautiful years.⁠
So grateful for all the extraordinary ones yet to come.

🤔 Ever wonder why patterns repeat? Why the same things happen to us again and again? And that which we fear or DON'T want is sometimes what we get?⁠
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It's not a coincidence. The whole 'self fulfilling prophecy' thing is actually real and based on the laws of the universe.⁠
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💢 We get what we expect. Period!⁠
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The problem is, most of us aren't even aware of our deep inner rumblings... it's way down in our subconscious.⁠
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That is why mindset and manifesting shifts are so powerful.⁠
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There is a proven process to help all of your thoughts become CONSCIOUS THOUGHTS, helping you shift them PERMANENTLY into a higher vibrational frequency.⁠
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Not only does this cause you to feel better all the time but you begin to focus 💯 on what you DO want, rather than what you DON'T want!⁠
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💥💥💥And that is when you begin manifesting all of your heart's desires.💥💥💥⁠
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It’s neuroscience meets law of attraction.⁠
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There is nothing like this available anywhere.⁠
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And it works. Period.⁠
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I’m living proof and so are my hundreds of clients who have manifested wealth, love and success (on their own terms). 🙌⁠

👏 STOP 👏 LISTENTING 👏 TO 👏 'EXPERTS' 👏 WHO 👏 AREN'T 👏 DOING 👏 IT 👏 THEMSELVES.⁠
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Hire a personal trainer who is ripped.⁠
Hire a financial advisor who is rich.⁠
Hire a love coach who is happily married... and has been so for more than 12 mos.⁠
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And learn business from someone who has been wildly successful at business.⁠
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I've built a 7-figure women's empowerment business as a "love coach" while still being a wife, a mom, and a fitness-fanatic. Oh! and traveling, playing, and LIVING the life I've always wanted.⁠
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Don't hate! YOU CAN DO AND HAVE ALL OF THIS, TOO.⁠
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That's why I'm so passionate about what I do: teaching women how to HAVE IT ALL is what lights me up every single day.⁠
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I want this for you.⁠
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And I know it's possible.

📣 The things in life that are worth having are not going to come easy.⁠
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Don’t lose your momentum in transforming your life!⁠
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You didn't fail. You made a choice that led you down an unexpected path where you learned something you didn't know you needed.⁠
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When you trust that no matter what happens you CAN handle it, you are free to make decisions easily and with confidence.⁠
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The relationship you have with yourself is key. Trust yourself and you’ll never have anxiety again. ⁠
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There is no such thing as permanent failure -- only new opportunities.⁠
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Try ... fail ... try ... SUCCEED.⁠
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A strong woman is determined by how she pushes through hardships. Even if everything in the world right now feels a little crumbly, don’t let it affect you and who you are becoming.⁠
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Continue loving and bettering yourself no matter the situation or circumstance.⁠
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What have been some of your tactics for getting through your tough times with an even stronger mindset? I would love to hear.♥️⁠

💪 Had a blast talking about the power of COMMUNITY with the one-and-only @Davidmeltzer.
You heard it here first... 👀
WATCH THIS SPACE.
#community #davidmeltzer #comingsoon

⏰ No time like the present... no present like time! Cliche for a reason.⁠
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You may say you are not ready.⁠
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You might say that things will be easier if you wait.⁠
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Or that you are waiting for a better, more convenient time.⁠
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Yet, “the perfect time” is a myth.⁠
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Right now… launches new businesses.⁠
Right now… gets you in shape.⁠
Right now… beats the deadline.⁠
Right now… moves you one step to your goals.⁠
Right now… crosses that item off your list.⁠
Right now… makes real, lasting change IF YOU BEGIN.⁠

I love surrounding myself with the best of the best- who help me be my best. Having people in your corner who care about you, who want you to succeed, look your best, feel your best and BE your best is so important. I call this team of advisors, my ‘cabinet.’ I consult with them and rely on their input and guidance. Always for my business. Always for my personal growth. And yes, for my style and lifestyle. Hair by the talented & amazing @thomasobershaw and styling by none other than THE Lin Patten @stylebylp

Party pics!! What a glorious, magnetic, love-filled evening! Thank you all for showing up for me, for each other & for yourselves!!

💪 Hey there, fellow high-achieving badass who wants to have it all. I see you. 👋⁠
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Whether you are seeking health, wealth, love, career or business growth… the success you seek depends upon your own psychological skill set.⁠
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Focusing on strategies and tactics to get you “there,” to your desired goal will keep you stuck spinning your wheels- try try trying but not moving forward.⁠
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Yes, you need a strategy- you can’t do nothing and expect to succeed. However the single most important determining factor for whether you achieve your goals or not is YOU.⁠
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Your beliefs, your mindset, your habits … your IDENTITY!⁠
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So, I'm asking you to stop. 🛑⁠
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I know it’s asking a lot, to stop on all the hustling, swiping, networking, creating… try-try-trying.⁠
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Turn your focus INWARD. Do the inner work to become the version of you who believes in her core that anything is possible for you. That you CAN live the life you desire. That there is nothing inherently wrong with you that makes you undeserving or disqualified from being loved, being wealthy, being fit…⁠
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This is the edge you need to get unstuck, breakthrough and manifest ANYTHING you want!⁠
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This is what I LIVE for…To help women have the psychology, mindset and identity for extraordinary success. Be who you need to be, the version of you who confidently grabs the wheel and gets exactly what she wants!⁠

Community is everything! And every community is a direct extension of its leader. I’m blessed to have 40 women traveling from all over the country to be with me to celebrate US! #Authenticity #womenempowerment #businesscoachforwomen

Preparing for 40 of my gorgeous clients arriving from all over the country to celebrate love, connection, growth and expansion! (And my 50th bday too)
I’m truly blessed & feeling all the feels already!❤️🎉🙏🔥

You've probably heard, "You have to spend money to make money" and while, yes, that is oftentimes the case, you also have to:⁠
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👏 MAKE 👏 MONEY 👏 TO 👏 MAKE 👏 MONEY 👏⁠
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The next time you're considering an investment into yourself or your business, don't ask: How much does it cost?⁠
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Instead ask...⁠
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What will my RETURN ON INVESTMENT be here?⁠
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🧠 It's not just a mindset shift.⁠
💰️ It's a MONEY shift.

The woman who wrote this often-quoted passage about scary dreams was the first elected female head of state in Africa.⁠
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She knows a thing or two about BIG DREAMS.⁠
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And I know a thing or two about big dreams... and a thing or two about achieving them.⁠
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Guess what else I know?⁠
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I KNOW YOU HAVE BIG DREAMS, TOO.⁠
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So, what's the difference between you and me?⁠
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🧠 Mindset⁠
🏃‍♀️ Action⁠
💫 Commitment⁠
💰️ Investment⁠
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Dream it.⁠
Do it.

Turning 50 is a big deal! So let the celebration last all month! I love getting older. What about you?

You may have heard: "Play small to stay small" but I'm going to put it a different way:⁠
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🧠 Think small to stay small.⁠
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📣 Listen up! If you want to start seeing BIG changes in your life and business, you're going to need to make BIG changes in the way you think about your life and business.⁠
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This holiday weekend (and each and every day) I want you to know that YOU get to DECIDE who you are going to become in this life. YOU get to determine your destiny.⁠ YOU make your own "luck."⁠
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Your past doesn’t define you. ⁠
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Your past or current level of success doesn't define you.⁠
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YOU DEFINE YOU!⁠
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It IS entirely possible to have everything you want in your life. Wealth. Abundance. Success.⁠ Love. Health.⁠
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And in order for that to happen, you have to know yourself, trust yourself, love yourself, value yourself, stand up for yourself, advocate for yourself, express yourself.⁠
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It’s about your identity, your beliefs, your mindset… your relationship with YOU.⁠
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Everything points back to you… and it all starts with YOUR MINDSET.⁠
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Drop a ✨ if you agree!

👏 THIS 👏 IS 👏YOUR 👏 SIGN⁠
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... to make that bold move⁠
... to make that big investment⁠
... to get to the next level⁠
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Here's a reminder: the universe doesn't need to send you signs. ⁠
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They're inside of you.⁠
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Your intuition is whispering and murmuring and speaking and screaming.⁠
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So.⁠
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LISTEN UP.

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