Just finished week #1 of this amazing program. Loved the videos and the exercises. Writing a gratitude journal is part of my morning routine, but loved, loved the way Hilary recommends we write it. Give thanks as if what we want is already in our lives! Started week 2 yesterday and with lesson 1 you had me both crying and laughing at the time Hilary. I felt as if you had made that video just for me. You were describing my life to the t! last night I took the first step to accepting my imperfections. There was definitely a shift in my body and my soul. Thank you Hilary for the work you do and sharing your light with us.

I’m so sad to be graduating from this amazing program…Hilary you are the best! I have seriously made such incredible progress on my journey of growth and personal development and will be forever grateful…thank you. I am grateful for all the support and encouragement from this group! To all you amazing ladies, we are awesome and we are so fortunate to be able to commit and invest in ourselves and this program…do not waste a moment or a call, get the most you can from this program…learn that you are special, you are worth, you can have the mindset and you can manifest the quality man of your dreams!

Hi ladies!! I just wanted to give you an updated in my life. Since graduating Hilary’s session, I have found love!! The man I have been seeing for a while confessed his love for me! While this is amazing and wonderful..my self-doubt kicks in. Saying the words out loud to another man sacred the shit out of me! I have been feeling love for him for a while I was just too scared to tell him. We had a heart to heart and he tenderly held my face looked into my eyes and said the words I have been longing to hear….“Janelle, do you have any idea how much I love you?” With tears in his eyes and tears in mine I answered him back…”I love you too.” He told me he wants me in his life indefinitely. This amazing foundation has been laid. Being vulnerable is a scary but wonderful thing it’s so hard to let down the walls…but when they come down, beauty comes in. I was stuck in thinking negative things, you know..waiting for the other shoe to fall…but I listened to Hilary’s videos again and remembered that I control my thoughts and my actions. I needed to be positive and patient. I don’t need to obsess about things that are out of my control. This love is different than I have ever known. Thank you Hilary for helping me find myself again!! Thank you for helping me find love and telling me fuck yes, I am worthy!!

This is just something you need to do for yourself if you feel you are in need of help. 100% worth the investment in myself! Just take the leap, you’ll thank yourself and Hilary!

Best investment I’ve ever made! Hilary was able to teach me more in 8 weeks than any other program had in years. I am a new me because of the time and money I invested. It FEELS amazing to finally know who I am and where I am headed. IF you are ready to be transformed, Hilary Silver is your resource!

Hi Hilary, I want to share my Aha moment. Last week I told you that a married man was coming on to me and I was so proud of myself for handling it the right way by holding accountable. I’ve since then felt very offended by his actions. I drilled into this more and discovered that I should be thankful as he tested my new boundaries and they held tight. It is proof that I have grown and no longer need a man to make me feel pretty! The old self would have eaten up the attention and then fantasized about being married to him Freedom!!!!!

Just listened to today’s call. Therapy off and on since I was 16…no results. In less than one week you totally get me!! Wow! This is truly blowing my mind…in a good way of course!!

I had a light bulb moment today during my daily walk! I listen to Hilary’s mantra from week 2 every day for my walk, sometimes I say it out loud as well. Today when I said “I trust myself” I realized HOLY SHIT…I trust myself!!! This is the number 1 thing I learned from this program and it’s such a huge deal!!!!! I haven’t trusted myself for years! Every single decision I used to make I ran by SO many different people, then went with the general consensus of what they decided for me (and rarely did my wants come into play…mostly because I had no friggin idea). I realized today I haven’t asked anyone except myself and God what is in my best interested for WEEKS! And it has been such a game changer!!!

Hilary has it figured out! I came out of a 35-year unfulfilling marriage. I spent 4 years trying to find myself and searching for joy! Wasted time and tons of cash to never make any real improvement in my core beliefs and how I felt about me! I’ve learned to look at life from an entirely new perspective! I’ve discovered so many truths thru working with her. She’s the real deal! May you find joy and rediscovered your true badass self!

My first week. In two 20-minute videos, Hilary nailed why my two marriages and countless relationships have failed. Something years of marriage counseling and “self-help” books have not been able to do. I have so much work to do, but last night I cried tears of joy as a HUGE weight was lifted.

I’ve spent the better part of 7 years as a divorced woman chasing “free dating advice” and had gotten my monies worth. I continued to make the same dating mistakes, continued to live in fear, and continued to spend Saturday nights alone. I then took the scary plunge to invest significantly in myself – my money, my time and my vulnerability – and I don’t regret it for one second. The Get The Love Program has absolutely changed my life, and not just my love life, but every part of my life. I’ve known Hilary Silver for over 10 years and she is a woman of vast knowledge, experience and integrity. She is worth every penny.

So, tomorrow is my last group call with the VIPs. I’m sad to leave this amazing group but also happy for my achievements. Hilary requested us to post our aha moments and what we take with us from this course. Well here is my share: As I came to this program, I felt broken, disappointed and stuck. I connected with Hilary instantly and that made me feel I had to make an effort to take part in this group. The lessons are fantastic! For me the going invade part has probably been the easiest I detected my flaws, named them, forgave myself for them and moved on. The course taught me to look within and through those eyes look out. A higher self-esteem is the result, I’ve been able to stand my ground and find peace midst chaos. One of my biggest realizations was my relationship with work and workload, but most recently, with money as well. I was feeling I had nothing, disappointed and frustrated for not having achieved riches despite of my age. Week 6 mindfulness exercises made me realize that I’m actually quite wealthy, worthy of all goodness life can offer and I’m grateful for all of it. With so little that has been offered to me I have achieved so much. So I take with me a higher self-esteem, self-assurance and confidence. I not feel that I am attractive, fun and worthy. I didn’t find a boyfriend during this part of the journey, but that is fine. I needed to build myself together first. Love starts form within!

I have to share my other Aha moment. I went through the chapter 2 exercise regarding three childhood moments that were impactful to me. I drilled into them and discovered some patterns in my life that have wanted to break for a long time but could not figure out the Lie I was believing. Long story short I came out with this: I AM GOOD ENOUGH!!! I AM F…… GOOD ENOUGH.

IT’S MY GRADUATION!! As I sit here reflecting on the growth and progress, I’ve achieved for myself with the benefit of this program in 8 weeks…I’m in awe!! October’s Lenea can barely recognize December Lenea! I am most appreciative of Hilary Silver and the GTLYW team for their guidance and encouraging support throughout this metaphorical “autopsy” of myself. Going through the module exercises were enlightening and often times painfully emotional, but I know if I hadn’t made the choice I would not be able to stand proud and accept ME for who I am and learn how to take my perceived “weaknesses” and turn them into strengths. I’ve been known to quote the Avatar mantra “I see you!” to others; but now I can say that to MYSELF with newfound understanding & no longer be ashamed! All the “ugly” parts of me makes me who I am but they don’t have to control/define me. Don’t get me wrong, it is a daily exercise in denial to not revert back to my “people pleasing” habits; but I now have the tools and conscious awareness of those behaviors and can say, “NOT TODAY!” thanks to Hilary Silver & GTLYW program. Thank you to the GetTheLoveVIP FB support group of strong independent women who, like myself, were willing to show/share their vulnerability and strengths with one another. You have been a true blessing for me throughout this program. I realized that I am not alone in this. I’m so grateful I chose ME that “dark” day in October 2019!! Now I’m equipped & ready to achieve more wins for myself in 2020 and beyond. As for my new beau, I’m still riding this wave of confidence and assurance in myself as our relationship develops. Feeling like a “BadAss” while he pursues me & accepting the truth that I AM worthy of his pursuit and affections. I’m just going to exhale and enjoy myself and not compromise anymore to please others.

So I decided to go to Florida for the week while my son spent the holiday week with his father. I have been really enjoying myself – just a gentle vacation full of exercise, bonding with my favorite aunt, daily meditation and gratitude journal, and working through week 3 videos and journals. Today I visited Nordstrom’s for a styling appointment. It was so much fun to try on so many different clothes, and it made me realize I have a pretty good sense of my own unique style – but it felt great to be waited on and to fit into sizes and feel like I look good in everything! (I have lost 50 lbs in a year and a half). I also celebrated my 1-year alcohol free anniversary this week – another amazing milestone for me. I’m in such a better place than I was (just a few short weeks ago) and can feel this sense of confidence and hopefulness that is just amazing! I made some small talk with a guy at the store the other day and I didn’t get struck down by lightning – and it was pleasant! I am making small talk/connecting and interacting with people and finding I’m a pretty fun person to be around!!! I can’t stop smiling and just wanted to share with you amazing ladies! It’s not always easy – but it’s so worth it!

Hi Hilary. I first felt like I wasn’t really sure about this as I had done a lot of work for myself for the last 7 years; HOWEVER, I feel like the work and time with Heather have given me a truly different energy. I am not dating online and not even in real life and that is OK with me for now. I have given myself the time to really think and know what I want out of life and make no big compromises as I did in the past. I am energized by the videos and work and have been taking this to heart to really understand my wants and needs. Thank you for this. I will use the extra week to re listen and continue the work I started here and before. I do not feel alone and needing of more advanced time right now. I already have a sense of security with myself and being on my own. I have a great life and enjoy the heck out of myself and I am learning how and when to say NO! I love the part about making the best out of the really shitty parts of our lives and turning it into something good! I am doing my best with that!

There are not enough words to describe how much Hilary Silver’s program has helped me. My self-confidence, self-respect and happiness are at their peak. People who have known me my whole life are saying “Happy Looks Good On You!” I can’t argue with that, but I also believe happiness looks good on everyone. Just be willing to do the work and dig deep within. This will allow you to recognize your flaws, repair the hurt and the scabbed over wounds. I have no doubt I am a better person because of Hilary.

I am not the 1st to say this here but I can promise you this, Hilary Silver and this program will be a life and game changer. You will attract a much higher quality man into your realm and have the abilities and confidence in yourself and inner power to weed out the crap men we all used to settle for. While I haven’t found my Gucci Bag of Chips guy yet, I know he’s out there and I won’t settle for anything or anyone else less than what I know I am worth and deserve. And that my dear, is what I personally gained from this program, on top of many other incredible life improving benefits. Oh, and you get all of us Alumni to love, support, cheer and celebrate you too!