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Seems a little counterintuitive...⁠
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But it couldn't be MORE TRUE.⁠
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You know that old saying, "Less is More?"⁠
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Well, I'm here to tell you: MORE IS MORE.⁠
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Doubt + fear = less.⁠
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Action + courage = more.⁠
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If you're looking to step into MORE...⁠
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💰️ MORE income.⁠
❤️‍🔥 MORE pleasure.⁠
😊 MORE happiness.⁠
🏝️ MORE freedom.⁠
💫 MORE YOU...⁠
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When you invest in growing yourself and becoming MORE YOU, you become capable of MORE and you earn MORE.⁠
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Counterintuitive? Yes.⁠
Terrifying? Yes.⁠
True? YES, YES, YES.⁠
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If this is resonating with you, don't wait.⁠
I'll see you in my DMs.

📣 LISTEN UP! Because the universe is...⁠
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When you put phrases like "I need to think about it" into the universe, the universe LISTENS and RESPONDS.⁠
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If you're waiting for evidence you should believe in yourself, 👏 YOU 👏 ARE 👏 DOING 👏 IT 👏 BACKWARDS!⁠
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We have to believe in ourselves FIRST... then we go create the evidence that we are more than capable of creating what is beyond our wildest imagination.⁠
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So much of our lives is spent CHASING. Chasing the perfect career, the perfect body, the perfect family, the perfect guy.⁠
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But what if, instead of chasing, you could ATTRACT? ⁠
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This isn't about charging crystals in the moonlight. This is about DOING THE INNER WORK to become the woman you MUST be in order to get everything (and anything) you want.⁠
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Take the first action step to start seeing THE EVIDENCE of all of your BELIEF.⁠
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What would that look like to you?

💎 What does it mean TO YOU to live a life of luxury?⁠
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Luxury implies so much more than other words we use to describe affluence...⁠
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It is the embodiment of ultimate freedom.⁠
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The freedom to...⁠
✈️ Take that exotic trip... or not⁠
👠 Shop designer... or not⁠
🏝️ Live on a beach... or not⁠
💰️ Invest and grow your wealth... or not⁠
🏎️ Get the dream car... or not⁠
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Because LUXURY is uniquely personal, there is no one way of living it out. But the freedom to DO IT or not to do it is what true luxury is: the complete absence of limitations.⁠
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There is a way to create a life of luxury, defined on your own terms. It requires:⁠
🧠 Retraining your brain⁠
🤔 Changing your thinking⁠
💫 Upleveling your energy & attitude⁠
💪 Mastering your mindset⁠
... and more!⁠
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This is exactly what I’m going to be helping you do in my next program RICH.⁠
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If you know it's time to create a life of luxury (on your own terms) and become truly wealthy, it's time to GET RICH.⁠
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This exclusive, 2-day live training event is coming this month and you do not want to miss it! ⁠
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Save your spot today ➡️ Link in bio for RICH.⁠

It’s not about ‘what you get’ when working with me…
It’s about who you become.
And my pricing isn’t based on what you get…
My prices are because who I am, what I know and who you become because of your proximity to me.

This #fridaymood is all about BEING MORE... not DOING MORE... so you can BECOME the person you've always wanted to be.⁠
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If you've built a successful business you're proud of BUT you just can't seem to level ⬆️ the way you want...⁠
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The problem? It’s YOU! You’re your own biggest obstacle…⁠
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People pleasing, perfectionism, insecurities, self doubt, fear, critical self- talk and ‘stinkin’ thinkin’ block the wealth, success and abundance you crave!⁠
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You don’t have a strategy problem, you have an IDENTITY problem!⁠
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🛑Strategy + Tactics = DOING ⁠
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✅Thinking + Believing = BEING⁠
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💥💥💥 To take your business to the next level, YOU have to grow your SELF to the next level.💥💥💥⁠

The first year my husband and I stayed here, it was $350/night plus taxes etc.
Then it went up to $700/night… then $850/night…
This time is was $1600/night.
Why do we keep going?
Because we LOVE everything about how it feels… the experience we have here.
The service. The atmosphere. The decor.
The food. The beauty. The location.
Luxury is when your needs and DESIRES are anticipated and cared for thoughtfully.
Luxury is attention to all the tiny details.
Luxury is the experience.
Luxury comes to us when we open ourselves to our DESIRES.
When we live in a state beyond NEED.
When we notice when we are tolerating and what we are tolerating.
And when we decide we will no longer live in a state of tolerating.
This is next level awareness and thinking.
This is next level identity.
There is more for you- always.
You just have to claim it.
Come into my world where women get what they want!
Unapologetically.

Story time about INVESTING IN YOURSELF...⁠
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I speak to many women who want to work with me. One woman told me recently, "I'd like to move forward but I need to sign this potential client myself first."⁠
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This created something interesting: her entire experience of growth, potential, expansion, and success was now placed in someone else's hands.⁠
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If this woman had decided to invest with me, from an energetic standpoint, her own potential client would have been MORE LIKELY to invest in her. That is just how the universe works.⁠
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We do not chase.⁠
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We attract.⁠
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What does that look like?⁠
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YOU GO FIRST.⁠
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You put it out there to the universe. And the universe responds.⁠
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You can't wait and hope and wish...⁠
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You must ACT.⁠
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Whether that action looks like a semingly terrifying investment or a new extraordinary venture or an outrageous adventure... ONLY YOU KNOW.⁠
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**Note: this isn't me having a high-pressure sales moment. I know the value of what I have to offer. I know what working with me brings. I've seen the ROI -- not only in my own life, but in the lives of my clients. And I know, with certainty, how energetics and manifestation W-O-R-K. Not woo. Neuroscience.**⁠
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How has going first paid big dividends for YOU?

⏩️ Your feed is full of get-rich-quick stories. Well, let me tell ya: there was nothing quick about my success!⁠
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I started my private practice right out of grad school when everyone told me I couldn’t and I have invested over $300k in the last 20 years to grow myself into who I need to be in order to operate a multimillion dollar business that is totally dedicated to helping women achieve profound well-being and empowering them with the identity, psychology and mindset for extraordinary success.⁠
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Oh and I’ve been with my husband for 20 years and have two amazing kids.⁠
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🔢 The number I want you to take away from that? TWENTY. 2-0. 20 years.⁠
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💥💥💥 But what if... you could learn what it's taken me 20 years to discover, refine and perfect to create a new narrative about money in your own life? And do it in a lot less than 20 years using my experience as a roadmap? 💥💥💥⁠
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((HINT: YOU CAN))⁠
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In my new program, RICH, I'm going to share how I went from 6 figures/year to multiple 6 figures a month and the serious mindset and identity changes I had to make before that could happen.⁠
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And all the tools you need to do the same!⁠
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This is going to be life-changing!⁠
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Currently it’s $555 and will go up as it approaches and the dates and details are finalized.⁠
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I’d love to see you there, if it feels aligned. ⁠
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For more, check out the RICH link in my bio.

➡️ (SWIPE) What is the difference between a woman who drives a silver minivan and one who drives a black Ferrari?⁠
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It's not that one vehicle is better than another... (in fact, one is almost worthless when it comes to hauling kids and groceries)⁠
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... but there is a big difference in IDENTITY between someone who drives a minivan and someone who drives a Ferrari.⁠
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Do you think of yourself as a Ferrari kind of person? ⁠
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💫 We ARE... who we THINK we are. ⁠
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Our THOUGHTS remind us everyday: ⁠
✨ Who we are...⁠
✨ What is possible for us...⁠
✨ How to BE who we are...⁠
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💪 It takes serious effort and growth to go from seeing yourself as someone who drives a minivan to seeing yourself as someone who drives a Ferrari (and BUYS ONE) because this is the NEW YOU.⁠
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This is NOT easy to do. TBH, most people don't even get it.⁠
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I'm SO proud of my client who did the mindset and identity work and CLAIMED her next level identity...⁠
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And now has a Ferrari in the driveway (paid for in CASH...that she doesn't yet know how to drive). ⁠
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She'll keep the minivan for taxiing kids to sports (after all, being a mom is also part of her identity).⁠
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AND when she heads off to do business as the BOSS that she is... ⁠
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Heads will turn... and everyone will see this gorgeous creature... getting out of this gorgeous vehicle and want to hire her!⁠
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And the woman getting out of the car KNOWS IT!!!⁠
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This is what IDENTITY looks like for her and this is exactly what I am teaching in my newest program, RICH. ⁠
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Hope to see you there! XO⁠
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🔗 LINK IN BIO FOR RICH.

💎 We all have programming about money: automatic reactions, judgements, fears, beliefs, expectations, and -- let's be real -- BAGGAGE.⁠
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This is our money paradigm: the stories we tell ourselves about money, wealth, and being rich.⁠
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💥 If you struggle with money…⁠
💥 Feel fear or scarcity around money…⁠
💥 Worry about having enough money…⁠
💥 Make money but can’t seem to hold onto it…⁠
💥 Have trouble talking about or asking for money for the work you do…⁠
💥 Hit plateaus in your earnings and can’t seem to breakthrough…⁠
💥 Think somehow if you make a lot of money it takes away from other people…⁠
💥 Have negative associations about money or people who have money…⁠
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💥 💥 💥 Then you have a dysfunctional relationship with money! ⁠
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And that means... you need to rewrite your money story.⁠
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That is what I’m going to be helping you do in my next program RICH.⁠
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If you know it's time to rewrite your money story and (finally) become truly wealthy, it's time to GET RICH.⁠
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This exclusive, 2-day live training event is coming in early August and you do not want to miss it! Save your spot today ➡️ Link in bio for RICH.⁠
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🤯 Does this trigger you?⁠
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Does it make you cringe?⁠
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Does a statement like this make you roll your eyes, call me a name, keep scrolling, or just make you feel Some Type Of Way?⁠
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GOOD.⁠
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Money is a trigger for people who have money trouble.⁠
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Or money BELIEF trouble.⁠
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💥 We all have programming about money: automatic reactions, judgements, fears, beliefs, expectations…⁠
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And this programming creates certain outcomes.⁠
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If you're ready to change this programming, change the conversation, change the way you FEEL when someone else tells you they're rich...⁠
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YOU'RE READY FOR 💫RICH💫⁠
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RICH is my newest program and it's coming next month!⁠
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Want more details? Watch this space!⁠
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Ready to take action? Head on over to my LINK IN BIO now ➡️ for RICH.

💰️💰️💰️ Ready to be RICH? 🛑 Stop looking out. ✅ Start looking IN.⁠
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We are all the center of our own universe. We take ourselves with us wherever we go. We are our own biggest obstacles standing in our own way. We are always the problem… AND we are always the solution!⁠
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That’s why the secret to getting whatever the F*CK you want is working on yourself just as much (if not more) than working on your business.⁠
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It's not about chasing 💰️💰️💰️.⁠
It's about attracting EVERYTHING YOU WANT.⁠
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I’m modeling what it looks like to live by your own rules and have whatever the f*ck I want.⁠
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Crazy? Not as crazy as believing you have to choose. Not as crazy as staying in a box you built for yourself. Not as crazy as living a life driven by fear.⁠
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If you've been following me for a while, you already know I transformed from a 6 figure/year brick and mortar therapist to a mogul with a multiple 7 figure women’s empowerment company.⁠
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The best part of all of this? My expansion is YOURS. My success isn’t just for me. It’s for everyone who wants it.⁠
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It's time to radically shift the way you think about MONEY, honey.⁠
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Ready to be RICH?⁠
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Watch this space...⁠

How is it that I WIN...
When someone disappoints, hurts or betrays my trust…
When something unpleasant or downright shitty happens in my business?
How is it that I WIN in these situations?
Because I always WIN no matter what.
Because integrity is everything.
And when I operate in my life and business as my ideal self…
When I always get my own back…
When I vulnerably and powerfully take chances…
When I see the best in people and assume positive intent…
When I have an abundance mindset and give of myself so that others may succeed…
Because I see everything that happens in my life as an opportunity...
To grow myself, to put my mindset to the test and embrace my leadership.
AND, I get to use these experiences as an example when teaching my clients.

#businessmentor #millionairecoach #businesscoachforwomen #millionairemindset #manifestingmoney #manifestingcoach #manifestinggenerator

♀️♂️ For the first time, I'm inviting MEN to join me for my upcoming Masterclass: Boundaried.⁠
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As I prepared for this event, I began to feel more and more strongly that the struggle for healthy boundaries affects us ALL... it's certainly not limited to women!⁠
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In TWO DAYS, I'm going to be covering:⁠
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💥 The many areas of our life we need to have boundaries;⁠
💥 Why boundaries are for YOU and for OTHERS in your life (and how they benefit everyone in your orbit);⁠
💥 What happens when you don't have boundaries or use them incorrectly;⁠
💥 How to protect your energy from other people and situations;⁠
💥 How to make yourself a priority without fear of negative relationship consequences.⁠
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👉️ And I'll be introducing you to my proven 3-step process for having and using boundaries in your life so you becom an effective communicator, are fully expressed, get your needs met and maintain a high energetic vibration and frequency.⁠
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Become a HUMAN who has BEAUTIFUL BOUNDARIES!!⁠
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See how this magically translates into rock solid confidence, profound well being, greater self esteem and MANIFESTING everything you desire.⁠
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Classes are July 14th & 15th at 10am MST.⁠
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💢💢💢 Sign up now for just $1111 and get a Friends + Family Pass for $333! Invite the people you care about so they too, can learn healthy boundaries, including for the first time... MEN!! 💢💢💢⁠
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LEVEL 2 includes a Group Q & A Coaching session with me!⁠
$1333 now, goes up to $1555 on 11th. LIMITED SEATS AVAILABLE. ⁠
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Link in bio or DM for details.

🔲 Boundaries don't make you a bitch.⁠
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If you're scared of "boundaries" because (you're a people pleaser) you're worried about what others think about you OR⁠
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👉️ you think boundaries might make you less-likable⁠
👉️ you think boundaries mean you don't have nice manners⁠
👉️ you think boundaries will hurt your business⁠
👉️ you think boundaries will ruin your relationships...⁠
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GUESS WHAT?⁠
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You're probably also feeling:⁠
💢 really angry⁠
🥹 really sad⁠
😫 really tired⁠
💥 really resentful⁠
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So, if this is YOU, I want to invite you to become a woman with beautiful boundaries!⁠
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💫 Join me for BOUNDARIED.⁠
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I want YOU to realize how boundaries magically translates into rock solid confidence, profound well being, greater self esteem and MANIFESTING everything you desire.⁠
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Classes are July 14th & 15th at 10am MST.⁠
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Sign up now for $777 goes up to $1111 on 11th!⁠
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LEVEL 2 includes a Group Q & A Coaching session with me!⁠
$1333 now, goes up to $1555 on 11th. LIMITED SEATS AVAILABLE. ⁠
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Link in bio or DM for details.

💫 Time to flip the script.⁠
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You don't wait for the proof to believe it's possible.⁠
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You CREATE what's possible by believing it's possible.⁠
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💪 I tried for 4 long years to get where I am now as a coach, mentor, and CEO. After 17 years of practicing as a therapist, I was longing for a change... to make a bigger impact, help more people and stop trading hour after hour for a check- only helping one client at a time.⁠
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I bought countless programs, hired coaches and consultants, ... but nothing I did actually got me closer to what I really wanted. I tried and tried every strategy and tactic to reach my goal of being fully online, serving women at a high level, and making a bigger difference in the world.⁠
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I kept looking around and seeing everyone else doing what I wanted to do and even though I thought I was ready for the success and change I was longing for, I couldn't "GET THERE." It was a painful and excruciating time for me...to want something so badly and nothing I did was working. ⁠
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💥UNTIL... I dove deep into my own mindset and discovered the only thing stopping me was ME.💥⁠
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I had to BE who I needed to be in order to create the success I desired. ⁠
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This understanding about BEING and BELIEVING to BECOME THE WOMAN you've already wanted to be, living the life you've always wanted to have, is the foundation of the Undeniable Woman.⁠
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➡️ To find out more, join the Undeniable Woman Group; LINK IN BIO.⁠
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Tag a girlfriend who needs to hear this today!⁠

🤔 Are you a good girl? ⁠
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Did you know that even the most successful of women can fall into the trap of using unhealthy coping mechanisms?⁠
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In fact... I see many very successful women who struggle with people-pleasing and lack of boundaries because of their good-girl personna's.⁠
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Sadly, this issue is especially common among women because we are socialized to consider the feelings of others from such a young age–this is our “good girl training” in action. Boys, on the other hand, are socialized to focus on goals and personal achievement or “winning” rather than others’ emotions.⁠
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When you focus on the feelings of others, it's waaaaaaay too easy to have squishy boundaries.⁠
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And guess what?⁠
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Squishy boundaries get trampled on, disrespected, overlooked, overwhelmed, and disregarded.⁠
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Feeling like you could use a little support in setting and maintaining boundaries? Become a woman with beautiful boundaries with BOUNDARIED, my all-new Masterclass with 2 options to join:⁠
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1️⃣ Level One: my incredible BOUNDARIED Live Masterclass;⁠
2️⃣ Level Two: the class PLUS a Group Coaching Session with me (that will also include a powerful time of Q&A).⁠
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Classes are July 14th & 15th at 10am MST.⁠
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💥💥💥 SPECIAL PRICING OPPORTUNITIES (for a limited time): ⁠
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🙌 Get the Level One BOUNDARIED Masterclass for $777 (until July 11th, then it's $1111)⁠
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🙌 Get the Level Two BOUNDARIED Masterclass + Group Coaching & Q&A Session for $1333 (until July 11th, then it's $1555)⁠
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🔗 LINK IN BIO.⁠
❓️Got questions? Shoot me a DM!⁠
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I made up this word!!
Having boundaries is an essential life skill that we are not taught. I’m going to walk you through everything you need to know and how to begin implementing healthy boundaries in your life.
This is perfect for you if:
*You have a hard time saying 'no' to bosses, colleagues, family members (including kids), men or friends.
*You often feel taken advantage of, taken for granted or even resentful because you are doing things you don't really want to be doing... and often the favors are not returned (you give and give and it seems it's never about you getting back).
*You don't say what you really think, feel, need or want because you fear the consequences such as disappointing people, having people upset with you, hurting feelings or letting people down- or worse... that you'll be rejected and the relationship will end.
*Other people's moods, emotions, energy or opinions affect your and can overwhelm you or bring you down.
*You identify with being an "Empath."
I'm going to apply the subject of boundaries to all life situations and relationships- because the need for boundaries is EVERYWHERE!
We are covering:
*The many areas of our life we need to have boundaries
*Why you, your relationships and other people need you to have them
*What happens when you don't have boundaries or use them incorrectly
*How to protect your energy and vibe from other people and situations
*How to make yourself a priority without fear of negative relationship consequences
*My 3 step process for having and using boundaries in your life so you are an effective communicator, are fully expressed, get your needs met and maintain a high energetic vibration and frequency.
Become a woman who has BEAUTIFUL BOUNDARIES!!
See how this magically translates into rock solid confidence, profound well being, greater self esteem and MANIFESTING everything you desire.
Classes are July 14th & 15th at 10am MST.
Sign up now for $777 goes up to $1111 on 11th!
https://go.hilarysilver.com/boundaried
LEVEL 2 includes a Group Q & A Coaching session with me!
$1333 now, goes up to $1555 on 11th. LIMITED SEATS AVAILABLE. Link in bio or DM for details

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