Not getting the you want?

It’s time for something different.

Attract the love of your life and enjoy a deeply fulfilling relationship without settling, compromising or wasting any more time!

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maybe this sounds

You’re a highly driven, top performing corporate executive or high level entrepreneur- confident, capable and wildly successful in your career and have your life together but…your love life is NOT the same story.

There is a big difference between how you show up with men and romantic relationships and you’re missing out on that one special person to ‘do life with’

You’re stuck in a pattern where the men you’re interested in don’t pursue you, but the ones you aren’t interested in do? (eeeww)

You settle for men or relationships that don’t feel right for you and even put up with crap from men that you wouldn’t do in other areas of your life.

You’ll date someone for a month and just when you are starting to get excited he disappears, ghosts, it fizzles out or ends abruptly.

You keep attracting the same wrong-for-you man over and over; fixer uppers, users, men who won’t commit or are emotionally unavailable? And then stay too long & try to make it work.

You’ve worked on yourself a lot and still none of the therapy, self-help books or seeking have actually helped you breakthrough this problem!

You’re starting to lose confidence…wondering if maybe there’s something wrong or defective with you and wondering if you’ll be alone for the rest of your life.

You Wish...

someone would just ‘pa-lease for the love of GOD, just tell me what I’ve been doing wrong and how to change it once and for all!’

What if I told you that you could stop attracting men beneath you…

Stop the soul-crushing constant seeking acceptance, approval and ‘enoughness’ from emotionally unavailable men…

End the cycle of bending yourself into someone you’re not, for him to love you or ‘pick’ you…

And instead, attract a man at your level who loves and cherishes you for who you are…

The truth is, you can’t find real, long-lasting love because of one reason (and one reason only)…

You’re subconsciously blocking love!

Yes, it’s really that simple.

You don’t want to block love, you don’t even realize you’re doing it, but you are.

Fear of

Fear, past hurts, limiting beliefs, a tough inner critic and mindset make you your own biggest obstacle.



What it would feel like to meet an amazing man and deep down believe that you are more than enough for this great guy.

Imagine going home to this man who is eager to see you and hear from you- a man who values your input and is there for you 100%. You feel supported, seen, heard, loved and cherished!

Are you ready to fearlessly attract the Love of Your Life and create a

Deeply Loving Relationship?

If so, I’ve got the exact road map you need.

A revolutionary 12 week transformational program for high achieving women who aren’t willing to settle for single and want to find their true, equal partner.

In just 12 weeks…

You’ll be masterfully guided in a private group setting to identify the root cause of your emotional love blocks, let go of all your past hurts and eliminate the BS from your past that continue to repel real love.

Using the best tools in psychology, neuroscience and relationship modalities, you’ll completely reprogram your belief system, retrain your brain and re-write your narrative that has you subconsciously sabotaging and repeating the same destructive patterns with men.

Learn how to express yourself assertively and set boundaries without fear or guilt, so you can get your needs met and feel happier.

Redefine your new self and step into your new identity as a powerful and graceful woman who gets what she wants in life and in love.

Gain 100% clarity on the man you are looking for, where to meet him and how to navigate the early tender stages of dating with the most up-to-date and cutting edge approach for today’s modern dating landscape.

You will gain absolute confidence so you can trust yourself again, and navigate ALL areas of your life with certainty.

At the end of 12 weeks, you’ll be a totally transformed woman; one who loves herself unconditionally, trusts herself implicitly, shows up authentically and fearlessly…
a woman who is ready to welcome true love into her life.

Having a deeply connected, healthy, fulfilling love starts with you

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I know you’re wondering…

Will this work for me?

I get it, you’ve tried everything, online dating, matchmakers, dating coaches, therapy and still nothing…maybe you are starting to believe this is just your destiny…

Our program is a PROVEN system that has helped thousands of women in the last 20 years – if you are REALLY ready for this, it WILL work for you too! We combine multiple modalities including neuroscience, EMDR, cognitive tools, emotional intelligence and more – and put things together in a way you’ve NEVER experienced before.

I’ve spent the better part of 7 years as a divorced woman chasing “free dating advice” and had gotten my monies worth. I continued to make the same dating mistakes, continued to live in fear, and continued to spend Saturday nights alone. I then took the scary plunge to invest significantly in myself - my money, my time and my vulnerability - and I don’t regret it for one second, The Get The Love Program has absolutely changed my life, and not just my love life, but every part of my life. I’ve known Hilary Silver for over 10 years and she is a woman of vast knowledge, experience and integrity. She is worth every penny.

~ Lori

Last night…I hadn’t showered all day…looking my very worst… came into my Love’s house to our song playing on the speaker. I asked him to dance and we did, right there in the middle of his kitchen. And then he said “I just can’t wait any longer” and he got down on one knee and proposed right there!!!! 7 months and he is my best friend and the love of my life. Thank you Hilary Silver for helping me become more myself than I’ve ever been so I could find someone who I can share forever with who knows the real and true me!!!


Hilary Silver changed my life in many different ways. There are not enough words to express my gratitude toward her and her program. This program was a wonderful eye opening experience. The alumni group after I finished the program is such a great asset to life. It’s like we have our own community full of people with the same knowledge, goals, and background. I am glad I completed the program. I am worth it!!!


Hilary, I wanted you to know that I have found love. He is a great guy. Thanks for believing in me. Thanks for all of the advice. I would not be here without your help.

~ Melissa

I could’ve never imagined a Valentines Day like the one I had. I now know that dreams can come true! It started w these roses & having my awesome man of 1 year by my side and it ended with a call from our realtor telling us our offer got accepted on our dream home! I took Hilary’s course last year, then met my dream man 8 months later. I cannot believe this is really happening to me after so many years of meeting the wrong men and unhealthy patterns. I’m beyond grateful! Never settle, or doubt your gut. Everything happens for a reason!


Hilary’s program helped me realize what I needed to work on within myself. I knew I needed help. After my divorce, I was a mess. I had lost my confidence, and I had a lot to blame, hurt and I felt so much shame. Hilary is wonderful! She was with me every step of the way! Through her program, I was able to work past all of the negative feelings and thoughts. It was hard work, but using the tools Hilary has given me and working on the program, I have found confidence and self-love. With Hilary and her amazing program, I got the love I have always wanted. I found the love for MYSELF, and I found the love of my life!! Thank you, Hilary!


Signing up to work with Hilary was one of the best decisions I could have made. The coaching calls, the lesson content, the community- all gave me the strength to make some life changing decisions. I was able to break off a 2 year toxic on/off relationship and figure out who I am and who I was looking for. Armed with a new set of knowledge and confidence, I found the man of my dreams and we’re still going strong over a year later! It’s a great program!!!

~ Lindsey

Yesterday was the first day of Spring which represents new life, growth and vibrancy. On that day I had the honor of accepting a marriage proposal from my partner, lover and friend. We’re so excited to begin our journey of a new life together. We love that we found love during a pandemic. For us, 2020 did not suck Thank you to Hilary for everything you’ve taught our group- and thank you to all of you amazing ladies who are such a supportive community. Xo


I reminded myself of Hilary's lessons on remaining open to love, and proceeded building this beautiful, honest, loving, trustworthy, solid relationship. I can't remember ever feeling this grounded in a relationship or so loved. Thank you Hilary Silver for giving my the tools to have faith in love and in myself.


So many aspects of my life changed while and since doing this program. My situation is more complicated than most and what tools, I received impacted my family dynamics, my business, my friendships, my outlook, my self-care and of course my dating life. The checklist at this point in life is different than it was before. Hilary Silver will show you how to embrace it all!


Worth every penny! Hilary speaks the truth and tells it like it is. She shows you how to get out of your own way stop over thinking and take responsibility for your actions so you can show up and find true love by first loving yourself.


I am extremely grateful for this program! I’ve seen a lot of personal growth within myself which not only will help me find “my guy,” but also help me with my relationships in general and get back on track professionally. Thank you, Hilary!


It was my first call that I could listen to real time and it was outstanding! What I kept forgetting as I sequestered myself in my own pity party for so many years – is that I’m not totally original. There’s someone going through the same things as I am – clearly shown today – and this group of women whom I was blessed to join this current group with is incredible! Hilary – you have helped me more in a week than months of counseling that I have done in the past! I’m so excited for the rest of program. Thank you!

~ Kimberly

Hilary Silver’s program is definitely with the $ as I am worth investing in. I am happier today with my life than I had been for the prior 20 years. I see my patterns, learned to change it, stopped my inner critic from sabotaging myself, and see myself in a whole new way. The question I have for you is are you willing to work the program and be a part of an awesome women’s exclusive group? It’s hard work and one must be willing to invest in themselves. I highly recommend the program to women who really want to change.


How is this different from other things I’ve done?

Our program combines the best of the therapy and coaching worlds – going deep into your inner world but provides action steps to create lasting and tangible change.

This is the most cutting edge method of creating transformation, combining online course with high touch, elite level, world class coaching one-on-one and group coaching and an extraordinary community of other executive level women! There’s simply nothing like this anywhere else!

Will I get to work with
Hilary directly?

YES! Hilary remains a committed and integral part of the program along with her team of world class coaches! If invited to join us, you’ll get the benefit of not just ONE amazing coach, but 4! That means you’ll have up to four coaches sharing different perspectives and experiences – who love on you and guide you along the way.

You’re perfect for our program if…

You’re a highly driven, top performing entrepreneur, professional or executive woman whose got it all: successful career, wealth, beautiful home, amazing family and friends, yet dating, love and relationships is the one last piece of your life that hasn’t worked out for you.

You are totally committed to do the deep, inner work because our program is like executive coaching for your love and personal life. You’ll be getting your “PhD in relationships” with us!

You believe in taking responsibility for your past, present and future and are committed to evolving into the absolute best version of yourself.

You understand that growth requires courage and trusting the process even when it’s uncomfortable.

You get that I can expedite the healing + finding love process, but that YOU have to show up for yourself and remain committed to doing the work.

The Bottom Line...

We only work with committed women who are serious about dealing with this painful problem.

That means you must be willing to do something radically different than what you’ve been doing – stop settling for status quo and lean into the discomfort of personal growth.

You must care deeply about your quality of life and be dead serious about growing into your absolute best self.

**Please Note:

You are applying to be part of an ultra-premium coaching program. The 12 week immersion is $15k, however on our love breakthrough consultations, we offer an incentive and bonus for women who are committed and decisive. It’s $13k if you prefer a payment plan or $12k to pay in full!

We only accept women who are fully committed and 100% coachable.

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