How To Love Yourself More; Love Yourself First, And Everything Else Falls In Line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world. –Lucille Ball Love yourself more. Sounds so simple, right. But you and I know how hard it can be to do this one (very big) thing. Self-care is …
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Trust Yourself! How Trusting Yourself Is Critical For True Self Confidence and Empowerment With Sunny Lenarduzzi I’m both excited and regretful that this is the final episode of this podcast. Letting go of this project will allow me to focus more on delivering my best content to you with VIDEO! YAY! So, on this …
Passion. That is one of the most curious and elusive emotions for so many people. And how to have more passion in your life is one of the most asked questions I get. What creates passion, what does it feel like and it sounds amazing… how can I have some? Well, in my opinion …
How To Be Good In Bed! Well, being good in bed isn’t a natural talent for most of us. Being good in bed requires knowledge and skill, so if you want to be truly good in bed, here are my three fast and fun tips! (they even rhyme to make remembering easy) It can be …
Is your marriage or relationship getting predictable? Why not try a little pleasure seeking? Sounds fun doesn’t it? Who doesn’t want more pleasure in their life- especially in their marriage or relationship? My special guest today, calls herself a “pleasure junkie,” but she recently decided to replace FOOD and DRINK as her main indulgences and …
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Love Languages. That big book not so long ago has made a huge impact on couples around the world. It helped us to see that we each give and receive our love, support, care and attention in different ways- ie, our love languages. In other words, if LOVE IS AN ACTION, it’s how we …
Getting Turned On. We’d like to think that it’s our partner’s responsibility to turn us on. They are sexy or are making the moves in a way that lights us up. And when this happens, it’s great. But the problem is when it’s not happening. Partners get stuck in blaming each other for a lack …
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We have a the sweet Patrick Wu on the show today as our featured guest. Patrick is a dating coach for men and his entire business (and podcast The Wooist) is devoted to teaching men how to Woo women but in an authentic way.
Tune in as I ask him about taking dating advice from someone who hasn’t had a long-term relationship, tips for men to approach women and what the dating coach wants for himself!
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Hilary Silver, LCSW is a marriage therapist and relationship counselor in Denver, CO, and the creator of Hot, Healthy & Happily Ever After. She specializes in helping men, women and couples learn the secrets of keeping the love and passion alive for the long- term. Visit www.hilarysilver.com for more information!
Dating Mistakes: Today’s episode of Hot, Healthy & Happily Ever After is devoted to those among us who are looking for love. Whether actively dating or simply being open to the connection should it happen- there are a few common dating mistakes singles make when hoping love finds them. Don’t worry, the mindset and behaviors …
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January is known as divorce month because so many people, unhappy in their relationships, finally pull the plug after one last holiday season. I’ve worked with men, women and couples since 2001 and what I know to be true- are these few things:
1. So many people who are unhappy in their relationships will stay for years in a half-in and half-out state. They stay for loyalty, for the kids, for fear of being alone or hurting their partner (all good reasons).
2. Most of the time, these people think they have “tried” to work on their relationship and they are willing to do the work too! Perhaps they have read books or gone to therapy but nothing changed. This is likely because they haven’t been focusing on the right things to make their relationship better (there is a lot of well meaning people pushing bad information out there)
3. Staying in this limbo state year after year is almost as painful if not more than divorce- it’s emotionally exhausting and all consuming to wake up and think about your relationship status all day everyday.
4. Most people end up leaving eventually and at first feel relief and then they miss their family unit tremendously but it’s making the decision that is the part that is healing.
5. No one can make this decision for you- only YOU! But you must make a decision.
On today’s episode I share my tool “Determining Deal-Breakers” to help you get clear about whether you should stay or go! I hope it helps- and please share it with anyone you know who is in this situation.
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