Not getting the you want?

It’s time to break through your own BS!

So what’s the problem?

Shhhhh… big secret here: it’s YOU.

YOU and your own BS — your bullshit and your blind spots — are the problem.

Bitter pill? You bet.
But it’s also the magic pill.

Not enough?

Critical self talk, people pleasing, perfectionism…

Shoulding all over yourself, living up to everyone else’s expectations of who you’re supposed to be…

And telling yourself the same. old. story. over and over again.

Your BS will keep you chronically unfulfilled, unhappy and unable to get what you really want in life, love and business!

It’s time to stop settling for less than everything you want.

It’s not just about feeling better... it’s about
BEING better!

Using research-based brain science, emotional intelligence, human psychology, cognitive tools and the energetics of manifesting, my coaching and mentoring programs create true transformation.


I’m Hilary.

I’m a mentor and a catalyst for wealth, love and potential. 

And, I’m also a clinical psychotherapist turned master coach, entrepreneur, and CEO of a multi 7 figure company.

I’ve spent the last 20 years of my career, motivating, inspiring and teaching my clients how to cultivate a rock solid, unshakeable relationship with themselves and witnessing them step into their most authentic, empowered, and capable selves.

And after working with thousands of clients in the last two decades, what I KNOW FOR SURE… is you can have everything you want, you just have to become that version of yourself who knows how to make it happen.

signature programs

The most advanced inner work program combined with dating + relationship education and skills for smart, single women who are ready to end their search for real love.

Leadership and Business Coaching for Ambitious Visionary Women Who Are Ready To Claim Other-Worldy Success In Business

"2020 was my best year ever. I took my business from less than a million to 5.4 million and my income went up 5 fold. I accelerated after doing the program realizing how my 'not good enough' was getting in my way."

~Ruth G.

“I never thought I could experience love like this, maybe even felt I didn’t deserve it. I now know I do. Thank you Hilary Silver for giving me the tools to have faith and love in myself.”

~Kristie G.

“Hilary Silver changed my life… There are not enough words to express my gratitude. This program was a wonderful eye opening experience… I am glad I completed the program. I am worth it!!!!!”

~Geanie S.

"I wish I could have done this 20 years ago! Give yourself permission to unload all of the extraneous BS that’s keeping you locked into unhealthy patterns of co-dependent relationships, friendships and work situations. You will LOVE the new you!"

~ Veronica

"After being widowed, I was afraid to start dating again. After a bad experience, I realized I needed help. And in the process of Hilary's program, I did the work to get myself into a place where I am truly happy. We met on Bumble, he's a true gentleman and perfect adventure partner, we've been together 11 months, are deeply in love and are planning our future together."


“So grateful for this program and how life changing it has been! Armed with a new set of knowledge and confidence, I found the man of my dreams, have moved in together and are planning our wedding."

~Lindsey G.

“8 days after just one coaching call, I raised my fee (after trying for 2 years) and got my first client at my new price. Then just 10 days later, I got two clients in one day! Thank you a thousand times over!!!"

~Kellie D.

"Thank you so much for giving me the tools and skills to attract and be successful in this relationship. I use them everyday with this amazing man who stepped right off the pages of my journal. And I met him when I was the heaviest I've ever been. The process works!!"


I have never felt more loved, appreciated, understood, or cherished in my entire life. If I can offer everyone ONE piece of hope, it is this: DO NOT SETTLE! Your perfect person is out there and looking for you! They might not look exactly as you imagine, but you will know they are the right one because you will FEEL it! Everything will line up and you will have to pinch yourself to know it's real.


“With Hilary and her amazing program, I got the love I have always wanted. I found the love for MYSELF, and I found the love of my life!! Thank you, Hilary!”

~Janelle J.

“The mindset work — works. Thank you, Hilary Silver for holding me accountable to my dreams and stepping into the real Wendy.”

~Wendy J.

"I am most appreciative of Hilary Silver and her team for their guidance and encouragement... now I'm equipped & ready to achieve more wins for myself!"


“My life is forever changed by this experience and worth every dollar I invested in myself. Update: I'm in Hawaii working on the documentary film of my dreams. Thank you, Hilary!”

~Sara P.

Hilary, I think somehow you called me at a time when I needed it and your course hit upon some crucial information that I was ready to integrate into my life. I re-listen to the modules and they always deepen my awareness. I’ve always been healthy but now I’m much stronger emotionally! I will always have my back and you taught me I can have my own back without hurting others. No more need for that touch edge I was carrying around.


bottom line?

You’re the problem — AND the solution.

Live life on your own terms.
Be fearless and free.
Get everything you want.

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