I’ve learned what it means to speak my truth, have an awareness of my core beliefs, and have the confidence to have the damn party already, instead of worrying about who will come, is my house big enough, what food to serve, and so on! I am learning to be my own best friend, advocate and confidant so that I can communicate effectively, confidently, and making my feelings known so that I won’t be misunderstood, disappointed, feel guilty, or have regrets.
~ Emily Garcia
Hilary showed me how to heal my heart, stop acting out on behavior that didn’t serve me and how to listen to my intuition. Through this work on myself, it effected how I was showing up in my marriage and I was able to make the shifts and adjustments to have not just a really exciting life but a super hot marriage. Hilary helped me unpack and really address emotional eating, resentments, self sabotage and self love. I adore this woman and her work. Invest in yourself and work with Hilary to get clear on what is stopping you from achieving your desires, I’m so glad I did.
~ Stephanie Bryant
Hilary is passionate and brilliant at what she does, and also extremely relatable. She walks you through the steps and breaks down what it takes to be in a healthy relationship – to show up and feel heard. I am beyond grateful to have found Hilary and all she has to offer. She taught me to look at my relationship in a new way, in that it takes work to make it strong and healthy. Hilary digs deep and delivers all you need to know to have a thriving relationship.
~ Kelly Liuzza
Working with Hilary has been like a breath of fresh air! Not only do I feel fully understood, she has given the tools to help me finally recognize my own patterns and triggers in the moment (which is HUGE). This new awareness has allowed me to connect with my truth and feel braver in sharing it with my partner while being open to his experience. For the first time ever, I feel freed from the unconscious cycle of miscommunication and unrealistic expectations I’d helped create in my relationship
~ Amjanette Fennel
If you are looking for a therapist and a program to deliver more than what it promises, you will find it with Hilary. I sure did. She is one of the best couples therapist I have ever met, and I know TONS of therapists. She is different, I admire her total commitment to couples. She details how to keep the passion alive after the honeymoon is over. Hilary delivers skills, tools and concepts that seem so obvious but most couples struggle to attain them. She hands them right to you. If you have a good relationship, Hilary will show you how to make it amazing. Hilary Silver’s program is a total game changer.
~ C. H.
In January, I married the wonderful husband cooking dinner beside me. Your help in getting me here was instrumental. Through you, I learned to trust myself, be authentic and bring the whole me to the table.
I am doing great and I have a new man in my life who I can call my fiancé. Yes, we are engaged! He’s awesome and well worth the wait. I pinch myself everyday- thanks to your words of wisdom. I’m super happy and love my life.
Hilary’s approach is that of a highly-trained and educated professional, disguised as the friend you want. She brings the science of psychology to the table, but delivers it in accessible and supportive ways. She will challenge your ideas and misconceptions, and flag you when a choice or behavior seems unproductive… yet won’t chastise you for it, and offers support in all scenarios.